Archive for January, 2008
Tagged by Elizabeth
I’ve been tagged by Elizabeth for this really cool meme.
The Rules:-
Pick up the nearest book of 123 pages or more. (No cheating!)
Find Page 123.
Find the first 5 sentences.
Post the next 3 sentences.
Tag 5 people.
The book nearest me is one of the 6 history books I am reading for my class. Authored by Stephen Ambrose it is titled, Nixon: The Education of a Politician 1913-1962.
“Then he’d reason with them. Rather than make a direct contradiction he would lead them around until he had them over in his corner. He has terrific ability in that regard.”
For context, this quote was said by Roy Day, the creator of the Committee of 100 who were Nixon’s supporters in his first run for political office for the Republican Congressional seat in 1946 against Jerry Voorhis.
Tag! You’re it, Vara, Meg, Cousin Ken (if he’s reading this), Aniroo, and Uncle Curmudge.
5 comments January 31, 2008
“The Gift of Pain”
While reading a past issue of Life Transfigured: A Journal of Orthodox Nuns published by The Orthodox Monastery of the Transfiguration, I came across a beautiful and inspiring article which is an excerpted of Mother Alexandra’s book Hospital of the Queen’s Heart. In this excerpt she wrote about “The Gift of Pain.” Since many of us struggle with pain of many sorts – physical, mental, emotional and spiritual – I wanted to share it with you.
The little excerpt retells Mother Alexandra’s reintroduction to her childhood playmate whose name happened to be Ileana. Ileana was struck with epilepsy in an era when it was not understood. Her family interpreted the manifestation of her illness as disobedience and did all they could to discipline her out of her naughtiness. Eventually, they came to understand that Ileana was incurable. Her father purchased a small cottage in a small town where she lived away from others so she would not be an embarrassment to them.
In 1944, Mother Alexandra returned to Bran and visited her childhood friend “out of a sense of duty.” What started out being done “out of a sense of duty” became a desire to be with her friend. Mother Alexandra recounted the following:
“She confided in me how tragically her illness had separated her from her family. She had watched her friends grow up and marry, have children and live normal lives, while she lived apart, isolated in her own precarious world of illness. But she was never lonely…She told me about her discovery of the Bible, and the strength and sustenance it gave her. She said that as she studied it she realized that her own struggle…was the common struggle of the human soul through the ages.”
“Because of her illness, Ileana had never had a formal education… We talked about pain…and what it does to people, how it develops or deteriorates something within them.”
“Seeing Ileana’s affliction, caring for my patients in…the hospital, I began to understand the meaning of pain. I began to see it, not as one of the misfortunes of life to be avoided at all costs or to be deplored, but as a discipline and a process of distillation. It is a means whereby faith and reliance upon God are laid bare…when man’s skill and science can be depended upon no longer, or when the world becomes our adversary, we simply and instinctively turn to what has been there all the time, our individual oneness with God. He cannot be escaped although we try our best to do so. He can only be denied and lost sight of, for He is ourselves – our true indwelling nature which we bury deep under sophistry and false values. We are giving the opportunity to find this out when pain breaks down the barrier between.”
“It is almost as if we who are ill, or in deep trouble, are singled out for our schooling,” said Ileana one day. “As if God lays His hand upon us and says, ‘Come apart with Me from the others – I have something to teach you. I will show you a way to find Me, for I have so much to give you if you will take it.’”
May God bless us all in our schooling.
3 comments January 29, 2008
Sundays
I love Sundays. I always have. I don’t know why.
Growing up the Sunday routine was always as follows: get up, go to church, come home and get changed. We always had our main meal at noon on Sunday, prepared by Grandmom. It always was (at least as far as I can remember) some kind of pasta and I think salad. She made the best Pasta Fagioli in the world, as well as homemade Ravioli. Sigh. I cannot find another replacement for them.
Sunday afternoon’s were spent either finishing homework; which was rare since I usually did homework Friday right after school so I had the weekend to myself; or reading. I would curl up on the sofa in the den. Dad inevitably had football, baseball or golf on TV and was shouting his coaching directions to “his team.” Or telling the ref how blind he was. You guys know the drill!
I can’t tell you how many times when there was a good putt or a touchdown, he would yell in great joy throwing his hands in the air in glee and I would jump 20 feet in the air, not noticing what was going on around me since I had been transported to other worlds through my book.
I honest can’t remember what we did for “dinner” during the traditional five o’clock hour. Perhaps when Mother reads this blog she can fill us in via the comment box. Mother, you’re turn!
I have maintained that Sunday tradition through out my life. I generally do not cook a big family meal on Sunday’s, claiming it as my “day off from work” especially when I was a SAHM. We eat heavily at the lunch hour and nibble our way till bed time. Alas, now I do homework on Sunday afternoons since my Friday’s are taken up with another writing project and other days with cleaning, food shopping, work, etc. But that’s okay. I still manage to enjoy reading something even if it is only the comics in the newspaper.
The last few months, though, I have found myself very sleepy by mid-afternoon. Frankly, by the time I get home from church, usually around noon, I am absolutely exhausted. Thus sitting down to do homework, which generally requires a lot of reading, finds me drifting off to sleep in a short amount of time. And those naps are not just “little” ones. I drop off to sleep and I am down for the count! I’m finding that I kind of like the napping “thing.” I may have to keep that as a permanent fixture!
What are your favorite memories of Sunday afternoons? Have you carried any of those favorites into your current Sunday afternoons?
A good week to you all dear readers!
6 comments January 28, 2008
Hope the Horse
In light of my recent post and link to Fr. Peter’s blog, I recommend to you this story about a horse named Hope. In it you will read about the wonderful support of the local, sheriff, fire department and highway department to save this animal’s life. Incredible!
I’ve yet to meet Hope but that will be rectified when I go to visit the owner who happens to be my SIL. YAY!
4 comments January 26, 2008
Fr. Peter’s Rant
I dunno folks, but I think he’s justified in this rant and there is no need to apologize!
3 comments January 25, 2008
HEMA Ad
I received this link from an on-line friend. You need to check it out! It is absolutely amazing and fun!
Take a look at HEMA’s product page. You can’t order anything and it’s in Dutch but just wait a couple of seconds and watch what happens.
This company has a sense of humor and a great computer programmer.
5 comments January 18, 2008
Flat Fee
Time Warner is testing the idea of moving away from a flat fee for internet provider service to one of usage, like electric bills are figured. Read it here.
I don’t even want to THINK about what our usage bill would be! YIKES!
1 comment January 17, 2008
New Closet Organizer
One project the hubster tackled and completed was to build a closet organizer which he designed. To say I am thrilled with the finished project is to put it mildly. To say I am embarrassed beyond words of how many clothes I own is fairly accurate. Thanks for allowing me to brag on the hubster!
5 comments January 14, 2008
